Matthew 6:33 "But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." We all need to START here folks. If we aren't at least trying to find Jesus, how is He suppose to have a meaningful impact in our lives? Whether it's our job, money, kids or a significant other, they need to all take a back seat to seeking His kingdom "first". When we find God everything will change (especially with us). And those things i just mentioned? They will too. Oh, maybe not overnight, but through prayer, patience and faithfulness, you'll begin to see God at work.
Do not fear, worry, or despair. Trust in His path for you and especially His timing. For the MOST faithful, this can be at times very challenging. But that's the idea. If we knew the outcome of every decision we are making, and what the future holds, we wouldn't need "faith" would we. And, if we don't need faith, then why would we need to "seek first His kingdom"? Put God first in all you do and the rest will take care of itself.